My little sister is almost 4 and I'm almost 13 she gets what ever she wants cause no one wants to hear her cry. Everyone always says aw she is so cute. I am sick of it. Please help me what do I need some advice. It's getting to the point that I hate my little sister.
When I try to tell my family how I feel they say she is just a baby and she doesn't know and I do. Yep I hated my baby sister also.
But guess what? We are grown-up now and when I had breast cancer guess who held my hand during chemotherapy etc. Yep my sister! She's 13 years younger but we do get along so much better now.
You'll both grow up one of these days and I hope you are as good as friends as my sister and me. You are 13, meaning a teen. Don't you think honey it is just a bit silly to be jealous of a 4 year old tyke. At that age, even your were fussed over, and you don't remember it, it's not the babies fault is it.
And I am sure you were cute at that time and everyone called you that. Now that is her turn, you are being self-centred cause you think no one is paying you attention. Tell me can she do everything for herself that you can? And as she grows old, she will be compared to you, "oh your older sister is so much well mannered, studious blah blah, how do you think she will feel being baby-ed, she is old enough to understand, and won't be able to do all the things you will, like going to party, going on date, going out by yourself with friends.
I would understand your feeling Like They Do - Little Dion - Like They Do / Little Sister she been just a year or two younger, but this almost a decade between you two. I have little baby sister, I am 45 and she is 32 and to me she is like a daughter, and I treat her as one.
So honey forget the jealousy, everyone loves you as well, but you have already gone through those stages, now be graceful and let the little one have some attention. Be a loving older sister, and you will have a faithful loving sister, who will want to be just like her elder sister. They are right that she is just a little toddler, but you are right in that she needs more discipline in her life.
People are pretty much teaching her how to get whatever she wants and how to manipulate adults which will probably lead to problems when she gets to school. It's not your sister's fault though, so you should avoid getting angry at her. Instead, you should try to spend time with your sister and play Like They Do - Little Dion - Like They Do / Little Sister her, Visionnaire - Fabe - Détournement De Son. don't let her push you around.
I think that in this way you would be able to have more control over her behavior, which is what you need, and she will have more discipline in her life which will help her in the long run. It may not be fun at first, but you two will probably become close in the future. You're jealous of your sister because she's little Psychologicaltrauma (Dizkret Remix) - Various - 10 Years Of C2D Recordings Remixes LP get what she wants, which is exactly how you were treated when you were a baby.
You need to just grow up, accept that you're the older sibling and just deal with it. She wont go away, regardless of how annoying she gets, so show your maturity with your family and just stay away from her. I had the same problem with my little sister, for her it was just a phase. Just dont put up with it the way your parents do. Treat her like she is older than 4. Then she will act different around you. If you dont let her get away with things, she wont try to. Stop hating ur sister Try doing more things with your sister.
If that doesn't workyou can try to hang out with your friends more often. Sometimes getting out of the house is all you need. God gives you a little sister in order to experience new things in life and to have understanding,love,respect and other values.
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